Secrets of a Relationship!

“A relationship is an intricately woven bond to always stay together”

We live in a postmodern society today, where the definition of love, sex, dating and commitment are not defined by the same expressions of truth. We are the idols of urbanization and digitalization who are free, independent and daring; open to experimentation and free from the burdens of tradition.

Or are we the victims? Technology has offered us plenty of options to find love. Yet research has shown that even in a society as heterogeneous as ours, finding genuine connections has become more challenging and tiresome in today’s era. Many have argued that the sphere of technology has limited our emotional attention and has resulted in a pleasure-seeking generation which is ignorant to true intimacy and interest in their partner.

Others point to the fact that living in a fast-paced urbanized culture where stress, career, money or concentration on highly skilled industries does not allow space for ‘slow romances.’ While one’s social media may be flooded on quotes of love, peace and fulfillment, that very same person may come back home tired after a long day of corporate work feeling lonely and wanting some real warmth even after just receiving a thousand likes on their post.

So where does this problem start and where does it end? And from which corner does one begin to address such a layered and diverse issue and how does this phenomena affect marriages?

With the conventional meaning of ‘ true love’ fading, what will be the message we pass on to the next generation?

We are moving towards a revolution, but are we embracing it or are we still confused?

Let’s watch the interviews to find out more!

Here are some of the secrets to a healthy relationship:

1. Work on forming an emotional connection with each other, strengthen open & honest communication.
2. Love yourself and be comfortable with who you are.
3. Stop being scared of fights and (Respectful) disagreements since they are the path to further clarity between partners.
4. Keep your outside connections and activities always alive, don’t cling to your partner This helps in achieving a balance and having a world outside of your partner would actually help in complimenting a romantic spark.
5. Be deeply interested in him/her, not just the idea of having a romantic partner.
6. Be honest to each other about topics which may be uncomfortable because it builds trust. This could make or break a relationship.
7. Try to understand your partners flaws, don’t just try to control or change them.
8. Respect each others opinions and boundaries, a little compromise on both ends is also key.
9. Be your partners support and guide.
10. Lastly, appreciate and love your partner for all their flaws and amazing qualities!

Relationship is not only about sharing a connection between a man and a women but it is beyond that, they can be better or bitter. Sometimes it’s too difficult to understand and sometimes it is easily understood through our words and actions.

Thank you!!!

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Suravi Jaisi, Dipakshi Goswami, Priya Prasad, Bhuvana Ganguly, Abhishek Ashish Mukhia.